Showing posts with label Matthew Elliott. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Matthew Elliott. Show all posts

Monday, July 9, 2012

Ecclesiastes and the Mess of Life: Good Therapy for the Fixer


I have been reading and re-reading Ecclesiastes to start my day and its message has been hitting me between the eyes.

Many of you – and I say you as I am a theologian not a counselor – got into counseling because you are fixers.  As an INTJ, I am a fixer too; that is the core of my personality type, looking at a problem and finding innovative solutions.

You and I want to see problems solved, people coming through hard times to wholeness, God’s power on display to heal and restore.  People are on a road from one place to another, learning to be more loving, to give more grace, to understand others better, and to handle difficulties in a way that leads through them to greater health.  And as a counselor, you are helping people move from one place to another, a new place that is better than where they have been in the past.