Pornography’s pervasiveness in the culture and in the church is a well-known
topic today.
Many books, articles, and
websites, primarily directed toward men, have been produced to attempt to address
the issue.
Russell Moore, vice president
for academic administration at the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, wrote
a piece entitled
Can
Christian Romance Novels Hurt Your Heart?, which addresses the potential dangers
in romance novels.
He briefly reviewed a
book (
A Billion Wicked Thoughts by Ogas & Goddam, 2011) that
addresses how Internet searches reveal much about men and women.
Moore
raised specific concerns for Christians reading “Christian” romance novels:
“A lot
of this genre, though, is simply a Christianization of a form not intended to
enhance intimacy but to escape to an artificial illusion of it. Granted,
there’s no graphic sexuality here. The hero and heroine don’t sleep together;
they pray together. But that’s just the point.
How many disappointed middle-aged women in our congregations are reading
these novels as a means of comparing the ‘strong spiritual leaders’ depicted
there with what by comparison must seem to be underachieving lumps lying next
to them on the couch?” As counselors, we need to be aware of the potential
influences upon our clients and Moore
brings one to light in this blog post.
Stacy Trasancos, a self-described “scientist turned homemaker and joyful
convert to Catholicism” wrote a thoughtful
refutation
of an article predicting the extinction of religion in nine countries based
upon mathematical models.
In her essay, she
addressed the inherent complexity and unpredictability of human behavior given
that people are not just physical, but also spiritual, possessing free
will.
We should value Christians like
Trasancos who possess knowledge of the natural world and are able to eloquently
refute poor conclusions based upon faulty, a priori assumptions.
As Christian psychologists, our conclusions
about human behavior will certainly be informed by our worldview as well, as
Jay
Kidwell previously pointed out in this newsletter.
Biblical counselor Bob Kellemen
discusses
the concept of “victory over” versus “struggling with.” He rightly points out
that in many cases Christians, including those in leadership, suggest that
dealing with sin involves obtaining victory over it, rather than struggling
with sin.
He says, “
As we provide pastoral care and biblical counseling, we
need to minister out of the anguish of our own ongoing struggle with suffering
and against sin. We need to connect soul-to-struggling-soul. As we
write and preach, we have to stop implying that the resolution to any battle is
easy and matter-of-fact.” Perhaps our
work as Christian psychologists may involve re-orienting people to the
legitimate, continuing struggle with sin.