Showing posts with label Hatred. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hatred. Show all posts

Monday, July 9, 2012

The Psychology of Hatred: Part 2


Yes, we adults, many times truly like to hate our enemies. We enjoy creating fantasy scenarios and sometimes even real scenes where we get back at those who have hurt us. Indeed, revenge is so popular that it is one of the major themes in great literature from the Iliad to Star Wars. Why is hatred so much fun? Well: How do I hate you? Let me count the ways! (Apologies to Elizabeth Barrett Browning) Or at least begin to identify some of the more important ways (Kernberg, 1990).

The Psychology of Hatred: Part 1


In general, hatred has been ignored both as an important characteristic of personality and as a contributor to personal identity. Some psychoanalysts (Klein, 1957; Kernberg, 1991; Akhtar, Kramer & Parens, 1995) and a few other theorists (Gilligan, 1996)  are exceptions, but in general I believe it is correct to say that hatred and its associated states such as rage and resentment have been neglected.

The present short report is a modest attempt to remedy this neglect, at least to some degree. First, we will need some definitions and then we will look at some psychological theories about hatred’s origin. Next we will turn to why hatred is so popular especially in relatively normal people (like you and me) and in particular how it contributes to personal identity. We will then take up the Christian understanding of hatred and of identity.